love is when the way matters

well, please. give me a break. do you think you are a superhero, a 20 year old mustang, a source of neverending sexual energy and power?
give me a break
how can you spoil this whole night just because YOU couldn't go on right after you came?
give me a break
EVERYBODY knows, that men can't really go on right away. you gotta take a fucking break. literally. hahaha
god, i am mad. not that i showed you really but geez, that was such a promising start and then something like that. wait. i ll give you time. we have to learn how to be with each other. to be is an active verb. TO. BE. we shouldn't take anything for granted. to love is active, too. it s nothing we should take for granted. it is an ungoing learning process.... i have no problem with that whatsoever. so maybe take my words and please don't make the same mistake twice.
you want to make love?
there we go: love is, when the way matters.
sex is when the goal matters more than the way. sex is when you get frustrated as a woman, when the man doesn't make you cum. it s like, we both should have fun.
but love.
oh love!
love!!!!!!~!! love! i mean, hey, give me a hug, kiss me back. respond to me. don't be frustrated and pissed off. thats egotistical. selfish. love should exceed the ego. I should be more important than your achievements. give me little kisses on my neck. my belly. my thighs. sigh. be with me. look at me and see your beauty reflected in me. talk to me. hold my hand. my feet. worship me, be a servant to the goddess. i will return all that and more. be honeste with me, open up, and i will give you all my love.
all
my
love
and more. love is, when the way matters....and give yourself a break. and me too....and breathe in the silence. listen to your heart. get over it. it s not like we don't have time at all. we have time to learn how to be with each other. we do....
i think the biggest misconception we have is, that love is something that happens rather than what we create. love is divine. the divine is creative. as simple as that. hormons DO things to us. we feel a rush of blood to the head or the other pole for that matter ;-). that HAPPENS to us. but love is what WE CREATE.